Like dating a hot girl with a bad laugh
Even if the impact you made on her was badass, it’s important you show her you’re not just a one trick pony and keep the fun alive.
So no meaningless texts like “how are you doing”, “what’s up” and “hi”, which will contribute nothing of value to her image of you. Trying to arrange a date before you’ve made a girl excited to see you again is a fatal mistake countless guys make over and over again.
Also, this way, when you’re fresh in her mind, she’ll remember you right away next time your number pops up!
She’ll also feel more comfortable about your text interaction with her because you already started texting her when you were with her. (your name).” Not typing her name in the first text can make her think you’ve forgotten it.
It’s no secret that women love compliments, but too many compliments, especially thrown out too early on will make her think you’re insincere, desperate, are a low value guy and ultimately just want to get in her knickers. Top Tip: Instead of asking questions, make statements with a photo: “mmmmm, I love cats in bread” 7.30am: “Morning (girl’s name) X” 9.05am: “Just got to the office. Hope my boss didn’t notice lol.” pm: “Lunch break YAY! Think I’m gonna go Pret :)” 6pm: “Finished work, going for a drink with some friends.
There’s a common misconception flying around that since women love talking about themselves it’s a good idea to ask them lots of questions. No one wants to be bombarded with questions, especially questions that aren’t fun like “do you always go to that club? Wish you were here :)” 9pm: “I’m back home, did you have a good day? Seriously…if you think giving a girl updates on your day is cool, look at it from her perspective.
Remember, girls look for what you’re sub communicating in your texts, not what you actually say.
Ok, so you’ve been down the gym, had a damn good workout and think she’d appreciate a ripped photo of you with your shirt off. If you haven’t built up enough attraction yet, topless photos will scare her off. After you read the 21 mistakes I’ll give you the solutions…Since using this rule, I now never get those “first text blues” and you if you stick to this rule you won’t either!Make sure you change the subject and once the joke is over, don’t keep going back to it if you’ve got nothing better to say.It doesn’t matter how insanely fun you were when you met her because she’ll forget all those positive emotions as soon as you fail to maintain the vibe.